Dating woman 4 kids
A hard rule I had but now am questioning for this one woman.I have been on dates with other women before who have had children and I chose not to continue to pursue any of them.These men and women can and often do have children, but they usually find another partner to do the nurturing or they don’t care that much about their kids’ emotional needs. You have patience with children; you enjoy taking care of things, including children, plants, pets or people in need; you enjoy cooking for others; and you gladly take care of the people you care about when they’re sick.Are you a flexible, easygoing personality, or do you veer toward a more “Type A” personality?She is down to earth, funny, smart, ambitious, independent, kind and extremely attractive and I mean very, very, very gorgeous.Our chemistry is off the charts but my favorite part about her is being able to relax and enjoy the moment because as serious as she is about the direction of her professional life, she is able to appreciate the simple moments and humor in life. Although since I began seeing her, I haven’t been using any of the dating websites I have been on and I am not interested in dating more women to explore my options.
How about you just enjoy your relationship, get her to commit to you, and see where things go organically.
Which I am sure says a lot about how I feel for this woman and the direction I am looking to go with her.
Also, I will not neglect to mention that she is 23 years old and that isn’t even the issue. I have made the conscious decision of not dating anybody with any children because I don’t want to deal with the other parent or become part of that responsibility.
If you tend to be more of a take-charge, shot-calling personality, dating someone with a child is going to be challenging and you may not be happy because so many of the interpersonal dynamics and daily practices have already been set up.
Are you someone who gets in a fair number of fights or arguments with people, whether strangers or people you know well?